Here are 15 tips or principles to help you with your online game:
Use your best quality photos but don’t misrepresent yourself.
Your first message is key, use humor, make an observation, ask her a meaningful question about her profile such as her interests.
Take your time. Girls that use online dating are usually more cautious than other Voronezh women.
Stay away from sexual topics and themes. If she thinks it’s going to be awkward meeting up with you after she has divulged her sexual history and fetishes she’ll flake.
NLP can be used in messages or emails to build comfort and pre-attraction.
Don’t ask her how she is, or what she does in your first message.
Don’t be a horny chode (see point 4.)
Focus on what you both have in common at the start of your interaction.
Screen her for qualities that you find attractive. Don’t be afraid to ask hard qualifying questions during your interaction with her.
Don’t spend hours online talking to her — even if you have nothing better to do. Keep her wanting more, you should spend no longer than an hour talking to her to begin with and less and less as time moves on.
By gauging her interests you can tell her what you’ll be doing on your first date together, what you’ll do, what you’ll do afterwards and what you expect from her
The optimal time to ask her on a date is when she is ready, which means it make take a day, or a week of messaging her depending on how attracted and conservative she is.
The best date ideas are simple ones. Everyone appreciates a walk along the beach, a warm cup of coffee or meeting at a bar. It doesn’t need to be complicated and it certainly doesn’t need to put a dent in your wallet.
You can pay, but only if she deserves it. This shouldn’t be a problem if you followed the point above, but you can pay for her but only if you want to. Don’t feel manipulated into paying for shit she should be
Structure your date so you end up at your place. Keep an ‘excuse’, up your sleeve for why you should swing by to your place ‘for like 5 or 10 minutes’ plan this in advance and let her know this is part of the date. What often works great is to meet at your place first, invite her inside for a few minutes before heading out, afterwards when she comes back to your pad it will feel more familiar and less of state break so she can feel that wonderful horny sensation between her legs without her logic derailing the pickup